We’re just going to come out and say it. Some men are inherently more romantic than others. While this tends to be to the advantage of the women that attend our dance classes with their spouse, there are plenty of other partners who are sitting at home, just wishing they could convince their husband to come with them to a dance class. While you may have asked in the past and gotten a number of excuses as to why it is not something he can do with you, we have rebuttals. We have seen how much reluctant people come out of their shell once they give dance classes a shot. With that said, let’s talk about some of your husband’s excuses and how you can counter them in order to finally get into one of our dance classes.
If he thinks he is too out of shape…
In our experience, anyone who is hesitant about taking dance lessons will come up with a myriad of reasons why they cannot attend one. Regardless of the reason they give, the truth is, they are most likely afraid. The ‘out of shape’ excuse is one of the oldest ones in the book. However, it is also one of the most easily combated excuses. After all, dancing helps you to get into shape. Sure, maybe the first class he will find himself a tad fatigued, but the more dance classes that your husband attends, the less strenuous it will be and the more fun it will become.
If he thinks he doesn’t have enough time…
Talk about an excuse you’ve heard a million times before, everyone has time when they prioritize. On the other hand, we’re going to approach this as if it really is something that your husband holds to be true. People always overestimate how much time a hobby takes. When it comes to weekly dance classes, your hubby will only have to set aside 45 minutes to an hour each week. Try comparing the amount of time he spends at the gym or even going out for drinks with his buddies to how long a dance class is. This will stop the “I don’t have time” argument in its tracks.
If he thinks it will be too expensive…
Dance lessons are an investment, plain and simple. If your husband is concerned about the cost of dance classes, be sure to tell him that you will both be acquiring new skills that will not only make you a hit at weddings but bring you closer as a couple. Dancing forges bonding between couples and helps you to work as a team. It doesn’t matter how long you continue your lessons, you will be investing in your relationship for the long run.
It’s Time To Enroll In A Class With Your Husband
As you can see, there is no excuse that we cannot immediately shoot down when it comes to the many reasons behind enrolling in a dance class. If you are ready to get off the couch and spice up your marriage at the Modern Ballroom Dance Studio, contact us today. We would love to give you more information about what classes are available to you and when you are your spouse can join your first one.